is it just me?

well i wasn't going to post anything this week, but i was on msn and i just couldn't resist. someone on my msn list had the name, "better to have never loved at all than to have loved and lost. Somehow, the heartbreak isn't worth the lost love", and well that struck me as a bit off.

i don't know. maybe its just me and my crazy ideas but i think that a person is lucky if they are able to say i was in love once, becasue somepeople live their lives and never have the chance to fall in love.

sure when you lose a love your heart aches for them for a long time, but the pain will go away and the scares will heal. i think that falling in love and losing a love are expiriences that help us grow spiritually and mentally. they help us become people who don't take things for granted, people who live for today not tomorrow, people who enjoy the little things in life rather than the big material things. but then again i could be wrong. i don't think i can really say that i have ever fallen in love. perhaps i was close to it..but i don't think i was just there...so since i can't really say i have been in love i could be wrong.

i don't know am i totally off on this or do i hold some merit to what i just said?