its so much easier to know...i don't care you say its easier not to know...but man to go through all this and to be confused...i would pay to know even if you were to change your mind in the next hour...i would pay to know to give me piece of mind...somewhere to start, somewhere to stand. here i go, being typical me. reading too much into simple things...ha! but you did the same thing, if you realize it or not you did....